subject: Get Your Ex Back and Have a Confident Attitude! [print this page] Get Your Ex Back and Have a Confident Attitude!
Breaking up with a boyfriend or girlfriend is sometimes depressing, but it does not have to mean the relationship is over for good. Although a breakup will often leave you feeling lonely and confused, you still may be having the urge to run back to your ex and jump right back into the damaged relationship, but don't do this. If this is you, then there are some things you need to know. If you react properly to a break up and become aware of what to do so that you do not put even more strain on the relationship, then getting back with your ex may be easier.
It might be hard to keep a good attitude during the days after a breakup, but many relationship experts believe that being an optimist and having self confidence are key in surviving a breakup. Optimism and confidence are also key factors in healing a relationship that has had a breakup.
Be confident in yourself and never beat yourself up over a breakup. Do not go around showing gloom and doom all over your face. Find things that will keep you busy and keep your mind off of your ex and the breakup. Don't get depressed, but realize that this is a good chance to work on your self and change for the better. Show your ex that you can manage just fine without them. Be strong emotionally and you will survive.
Stay active with your friends! Show them that you are ok and can get along on your own and not dependant on your ex for your happiness. If you really want your ex back, surround yourself with people who will back you up and be happy for you and optimistic about getting your ex back. Positive thinking attracts positive things and positive people into your life. Use this to your advantage and be positive and happy. This will make your ex re-think the breakup and realize that you can go on without them if you have to. Let your ex see your positive and happy attitude and it will attract them, trust me.
Maintain good grooming and appearance! Don't let people see that you are depressed and not taking care of yourself! Pay attention to detail, keep your self looking clean and fresh and well groomed. This shows self confidence and will make you feel better about yourself. It may be hard to do this at first, but this is one of the best ways to show your ex that you do not need their sympathy and are doing fine. If you decide to get back together, you should do so for the right reasons and act as mature responsible caring adults. Be happy and positive and expect good things. Stay strong and confident and your chances of getting your ex back will increase greatly!
