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Everyone has gone through a breakup. There are just as many people who have thought the grass was greener on the other side only to realize that it wasn't. Just because you broke up with your girlfriend does not mean that you can not get her back. If you are trying to win your ex back, you must have a good plan. Here are 6 red flagged things to avoid when you are trying to get your ex back:
Don't be a cry baby
If you want to get your ex back, you can't go crying to her or her friends. It is okay to sulk for a little while but if you break into tears every time you see her, she will never want you back. Be a man. If you are whining to your ex to get her back, she will have no respect for you. Without respect, you have no change to get her back.
Don't seek revenge
After a breakup, it is natural to want to have psychological warfare with your ex especially if she was the one who broke up with you. Whatever you are thinking, DON'T DO IT. It might seem like a good idea to try and date one of their friends but that will just drive a larger web between you and your ex.
Don't Crowd Her
Give your ex some space. You may be thinking that the more she hears from you, the more she will desire you back. This is not the case. Do not constantly call her or leave loads of messages every day. If you inundate your ex with messages and calls, you will just piss her off. Being call crazy will just force her to block your number.
Don't Stalk Her
This goes along with not crowding your ex. I have known many people who would make every effort to be in the same place as their ex. I have even seen people who have gone to the lengths of going to their house and hiding and waiting for them. If you are thinking about doing this, you are CRAZY. Following your ex around will not make her realize how much she misses you. It will just make her mad. Plus, it will make her feel uncomfortable with you and that will kill any chance you have to getting your ex back.
Don't Lose Your Patience
If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Winning back your ex will not be an easy task. It will take planning and a lot of patience. You can't expect to get back together in a day or even in a week. As long as you have a good plan, stick to it and do not try to rush things.
There are many ways to get your ex back. However, before you try, make sure that is what you want. People break up for reasons. You must have confidence in yourself and if you have true desire, you will be able to get back with your ex.
