subject: What to Look for When You Suspect Your Wife is Cheating [print this page] What to Look for When You Suspect Your Wife is Cheating
If you suspect your wife is cheating there are a few things to look for that might indicate she really is. Be careful to find definitive proof though before you start making accusations that can be easily denied. These are a few things you can look for that are evidence of fire but they are only signs so be careful about making accusations until you get first hand proof that can not be disputed.
What are the Signs Your Wife Might be Cheating?
1) Alternative birth control she isn't using with you. When women turn to a secondary birth control method there is usually a reason. Sometimes there is a valid reason (some medications require women to take two forms of birth control while taking those prescriptions) but most of the time it is a back up plan to avoid pregnancy by another man. This is especially true when condoms are the alternate plan because condoms also protect against many STDs.
2) She stops trying to engage you in conversation. Women talk to their husbands and they want you to talk to them. When she suddenly stops talking to you it's usually a sign that she's trying very hard to "not" tell you something. In other words, it's a sure signs she's trying to hide or keep something from you. Unless a major holiday or your birthday is coming up then it might be a sign that she is cheating and trying not to reveal details about where she's been or who she's been with.
3) She's stopped trying to get you to go places with her. Remember how it used to drive you up a wall that she didn't want to go anywhere without you? How long has that habit stopped? It could be a sign that she's going with someone else these days or meeting someone else while she's out and about. Turn the tables on this one by volunteering to go out with her the next time she heads off on a mystery shopping trip.
4) Has your wife suddenly started picking fights with you? Most women bottle things up until they have a huge blow up fight. If your wife suddenly starts striking up arguments out of the blue it could be a sign that she's trying to disguise her own guilty feelings by being mad at you or making you mad at her. She'll begin doing it more and more because it works. You should also note that in her mind it helps her justify her cheating if you're fighting all the time.
