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Did you just go through a break up and are now thinking "how am I going to get my ex back?" It's normal to want to get back with your ex immediately.
It's common to start to fall into emotional depression and start wondering what your going to do. You might start to feel like you should call your ex and beg him or her to take you back.
But is begging going to help you get your ex back? It's more likely to push your ex away further and faster than you can believe.
The right thing to do after a breakup isn't what your feeling right now. Do you feel like calling your ex and begging to get back together? Don't! How about staying inside and crying all day long? Don't, it's just a waste of time.
Here's 3 steps for getting back with your ex.
First step: Accept the break up.
Tell your ex that you're okay with the break up, allow yourself and your ex to start moving on. Allowing yourself to move on will relieve a lot of the stress that your experiencing.
Think about the relationship, your ex will have some time to think about it also. If your ex still loves you, he or she will start trying to restart the relationship.
Second step: Break off contact for now.
Don't try to call, email, text or just talk to your ex for now, take some time to think. This seems like the wrong thing to do, but by cutting off communication you let your ex know that you are doing fine.
Breaking off contact will let your ex think about the relationship and start to miss you, then start thinking about getting back with you.
Third step: Start planning the next time you meet.
After completing the two steps above you can start planning when you should meet, where you should meet, and what you want to say when you meet your ex. This will be the best time to find out if your ex still loves you and wants to get back together.
Getting back with your ex can be a little more complicated than just the three steps above, but they're a good start.
