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What is the number one thing that will make a girl want more from you and want to give you more at the same time? It's reading her mind.
This may seem like an impossible task to do considering you are most likely not a mind reader but believe me it is easier to do than you think.
Our minds and bodies are closely linked together. We act out what our mind is thinking even if we don't notice it at the time. We all know this from poker or watching people who lie all the time. There are always tells involved. You have to focus your attention and catch these signs.
Even women who think they are masters at hiding their feelings and thoughts will give you a tell if in bed and let you know whether you are on your mark or far from it.
So by learning her pleasure moves or tells and figuring out what her disappointed moves look and feel like you will know that what you are doing is either really pleasing her or making her think about what else she could be doing at that moment.
A great tell that is a dead give away of her thoughts is moaning. Most women will moan or sigh when you hit the right spot or when you are doing the right move. Do not confuse this with a sigh of exasperation, which you should know as well, because then you will just be continuing something she does not want you to do.
A real moan will probably be accompanied with a heave of the chest or stomach, maybe an arch in the back. The moan will also be slow and even toned and most likely quiet unless you are in the later part of sex. Think sexy vampires moaning.
An annoyed and impatient sigh on the other hand will be accompanied by a limp body and most likely a more forceful breath or a click of the tongue.
Another way to read her mind and figure out if she likes what you are doing is to watch her body movements. Even if she doesn't move most of the time while you are exploring her body she will still react to pleasurable spots by moving her body closer to yours, thrusting her hips upwards, or wiggling around in pleasure.
If what you are doing is not pleasing her than her body will not react unless it's something painful, in which case you will know that too.
The last way to 'read her mind' is to listen to her.
You may think that you do listen to her but if you actually focused your attention on what she is saying you will see there's a lot more than just no or yes involved.
Most women are not like men and they do not come out and say what they want. The reason is they want you to just know what they want. I know it's not fair but it's the way it is. But like I said before, even if they think they are hiding it there are ways to tell. So listen for that soft yes or that soft but harsh no and listen to it! The same sounds she uses out of bed, that you know so well, will be there if you listen hard enough.
It's amazing what you can do if you have focused attention on her while in bed. She will think you are reading her mind and moving to the spots that she is begging you to move to in her head and in a sense you will be. You will move up the notch as a really great lover because, after all, women want to be pleasured just as much as men and there are not a lot of men out there who understand how to fully please their women.