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How do I show him how much I love him? What can I do to make him feel loved? This is what most women think but this is a wrong thinking.
Guys do not like large display of affection at all, it only scares them and turns them off. Doing this may actually send them running. Maybe you can try displaying your myriad amount of love in another way.
Here are some tips to help you along so that you do not rush things and scare him off.
1. Give each other space.
I know all women think that "I love him, and I want to show him how much I love him. Therefore, I want to spend as much time as possible with him." Guys need a woman he can rely on to talk about things, to share his joy and pain, but not a shadow who follows him around. Bugging him will only make him feel sick and tired being around and with you. So give each other some space and live your own life and let him have a life other than you. This will make him love you more as you are understanding, and you trust him enough to give him time alone.
2. Go along with his pace.
Men do not like to be rushed or pressurized. And they take a longer time to fall in love. Therefore, they will need more time to take things and process them. Not to make them feel rushed by you, relax and let him take the lead in the relationship. Trying too hard will only turn him off, causing him to lose interest in you. Just go along with his pace and remember, slow and steady wins the race.
3. Don't say the three words first.
"I love you" is the three words that cannot be inappropriately said. Women who say it first only let the guy feel awkward because they do not know if they should say it back or not. You are pushing him to commit and guys do not like that. Let him say it first, but it will take some time because guys are normally slower to realise their emotions.
4. Do not show too many affections.
Guys do not like to be mushy and touchy so try not to do mushy stuff in public. Guys hate it and it would not be nice letting people around see him pushing you away in fright of your mushy ness.
