subject: How staying confident can help you get your ex back [print this page] How staying confident can help you get your ex back
Breaking up with a boyfriend or girlfriend can be depressing, but it doesn't mean you can't rekindle the relationship. Even if you feel confused and lonely, you might still want to get back with your ex right away.
If you keep asking yourself "how can I get my ex back?" there are some things you should know. You should learn how to keep from straining the relationship even further, this will make it easier than ever to get your ex to want you back.
It's hard to be happy after a break up, but an optimistic and confident attitude can go a long way to helping you get your ex back.
Here are some ways that a confident attitude can help you get your ex back.
Rather than feeling gloomy all the time keep yourself occupied with things that make you happy. Don't let depression get a hold of you.
Let your ex see that you are perfectly capable of handling a break up and that you don't really need him or her.
Stay socially active. Surrounding yourself with positive attitudes and good friends will help you feel good. Let your ex see that other people like you and love having you around.
As more people like having you around, your ex will start to see you differently, like he or she never should have let you go and you should be a part of his or her life.
Don't let yourself go. After a break up you might feel like there's no point to keeping up your appearance, but this can go a long way to making your ex want to get back with you.
Pay attention to everything, your hair, your clothes, your makeup if your a woman, the way you carry yourself, and even your voice. Keep yourself looking good and looking happy, then your ex is going to see that you are just fine without him or her, confidence is always attractive and neediness is never attractive.
