subject: Dating in Pretoria: what you should know [print this page] Dating in Pretoria: what you should know Dating in Pretoria: what you should know
As any lady knows, dating in Pretoria can be a challenge. By the age of 30 or so, many of your friends may be married, with children, or at least in a steady relationship. Whether you have recently come out of a relationship or marriage, or you have simply not yet met that special someone, it may sometimes seem that love is never going to find you.
This is where dating services come in. Many busy professionals are finding that they do not have the time to go on random dates, be set up with friends of friends or brave the bar scene especially for those who are on the shy side, or busy with work commitments. Instead, singles are turning to the web to help them find love, with quality services that match up couples based on similar interests and values. A good service will carefully screen applicants to ensure that matches are accurate and to ensure the safety of their members, however how sure can you really be that you won't end up meeting someone who is not at all what they presented themselves to be?
Follow these essential tips for dating in Pretoria, and you should minimise risk and problems when navigating the dating services scene:
1. Do not ever reveal your details online
This means using a pen name rather than your real name, avoiding giving out you address, phone number or personal email (especially if you are using your work email address). Keep your profile generic and vague, with a focus more on what you are seeking and an essence' of who you are rather than solid facts such as your neighbourhood, favourite bars and other information that could give anyone who views your profile an idea of where you may be living. Remember that thousands of people stumble upon to profiles each day and not all of them are viewing it for the right reasons.
2. Use a flattering but not provocative profile picture
Unless you are hoping to attraction too much attention of the negative sort, resist the urge to use a revealing picture or one that is provocative or overtly sexual. This picture is the first thing that prospective partners will see do you want him to assume things about you before he has met you, or would you rather save the naughty side for when you know each other better? Low cut tops, too short skirts and other revealing aspects may send out the wrong message, and it may also attract the wrong types.
3. Always meet in a public place for your first date
Dating experts advise that the best option for your first date is to meet for coffee somewhere central in Pretoria, close to your home or work, and neutral. Do not ever meet at his house, no matter how well you think that you may have gotten to know him online, and do not accept alcohol until you feel 100% sure that he is to be trusted. Bring your own car or lift, and do not accept rides from him on the first date. Try to go dutch' for the first date, and keep it simple and short. This date is about getting a feel for what sort of person he is if it goes well, you can plan the second date. If you have any bad feelings or uneasiness, make an excuse and end your dating in Pretoria experience as soon as you can.
