subject: How Can I Get My Ex Back? Get the Ex Back [print this page] How Can I Get My Ex Back? Get the Ex Back
If you are seriously thinking of getting your girlfriend back, but have no idea where to start, you have come to the right place. If you follow my advice below, then hopefully you can get the ex back in no time at all.
First of all!
Do not go out and buy her things, this only makes it more difficult to get the ex back.
Thinking that the key to getting your ex-girlfriend back is to buy her roses, candy, her favourite movie, or any other 'romantic' gift is terrible advice. This will only reinforce that you are a soft touch, and she will be even more turned off than she already is. If you need to buy something, treat yourself.
Secondly
Do not be too available.
If your ex girlfriend knows that she can contact you for any reason she will contact you. When your ex does contact you, you have to tell her that you have made other plans. Do not be specific, remember your long term plan is to getting your ex back, not lose her forever. It may well be a test to see if you will come crawling back to her whenever she wants you to. Go out and have a life, or at the very least pretend that you do!
Now, here are a few things that I recommend that you should do.
First of all.
Get out with friends or even other girls. You need to start enjoying yourself even though you are un-happy at the moment. Even if you have no intention of actually dating any other women, it is very beneficial to go out with them if you can. This works because if your ex-girlfriend will get to hear about it, she may become jealous or curious, which is a positive thing, at least you know that she cares, also because it will build up your confidence knowing that you can still get attention from the opposite sex.
Secondly
Improve yourself as much as possible
Try not to keep thinking of can i get my ex back. Start to work on ways that are beneficial to you. get your self a new wardrobe or join a gym. Try to think of ways that you can improve yourself, whether it be health wise, financially or whatever way you can, but make sure that you do it. This will boost your self esteem which your ex girlfriend will notice (they are very perceptive). This will make you more appealing or attractive in your quest for getting your girlfriend back.
These tips alone will not get your ex back, but they are steps in the right direction.
