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Discover How to Get PROVEN Support for Your Divorce Recovery

Are you prepared...Or will you be caught with your pants around your ankles?

6:50am came early for me today...damn roofers started that early! The day before they didn't start until 9:30am - well after my normal wake-up

time of 7:30. With that "expectation" (bad word) I stayed late catching up with the guys I lead in a Men's Group on Tuesday nights, came home

had my favorite snack (sliced apple with Skippy Natural smooth peanut butter) and did some reading. I figured I could get up at 8am and get

the rest I felt I'd need...that didn't work out so well.

When the sound of clanging and clattering woke me up and I saw what time it was I immediately assumed some vagabond was walking around and

decided to help themselves to some tools that were on the front porch. Nope. Start time was much earlier than the day before. I was totally

unprepared.

I woke up groggy, back sore and stiff, craving an espresso with the thought running through my head, "This is gonna be a LOOOONG day."

I was unprepared for the early wake up time. And as I thought about it, I thought about (surprise, surprise) my favorite topic: You. Well,

OK, the right way to recover (and thrive) from divorce in general, but THEN I thought about you. And I wondered, how often are you and I

unprepared for what happens in life? In fact, I don't know ANYONE who actually PREPARES for how to recover from a divorce. But why not?

If the national divorce rate is around 50%, wouldn't you just be statistically smart by choosing to prepare for how to re-create your life?

You see, the lack of preparation didn't happen this morning. It happened last night with some INNOCENT decisions: "I'll just stay a little

later and hang out with these guys and catch up some more." And then, "I'm gonna have a snack and read a bit before I go to bed." Followed by,

"I'll get up at 8am". I was totally unprepared for a early 6:50am wake up call involving hammers ;)

Yet how many times have you been caught off guard, unprepared, for the events, challenges, struggles, situations, or problems in your

recovering from your divorce? No, events, patterns, habits, choices - maybe seemingly small & innocuous - have been made over weeks and months

or years leading to the struggles, problems, issues, challenges you're currently facing. I want you to get the message here: If you aren't

preparing for how to deal with the inevitable struggles and challenges AND preparing for how to INCREASE the love, passion, happiness & fun,

you will ALWAYS lose out on the results you truly want.

A lack of preparation will sneak up on you when you least expect it - when you're pants are around your ankles - and trip you up. What this

means to yous is if you're going to be SUCCESSFUL in getting the RIGHT divorce support by listening to me and doing EXACTLY what I tell you to

do, they you had best begin preparing for how you're going to prevent the normal bitterness, anger, depression, lonliness, & resentment AND

turning the tide in your favor so you can get the love, peace, fulfillment, & happiness you had always hoped for (no easy feat, but it IS

possible).

I don't know many others just like you who "prepare" for an argument, how to deal with setbacks - before they happen. I don't know many others

like you who "prepare" for their next ten, twenty, or thirty years down the road by determining what the purpose of their life is (developing a

vision) so they don't get knocked off track and not even realize it until they're in distress and dissatisfied in their life.

I encourage you and challenge you, as I do myself, to prepare, to plan, to be proactive. Take the fight to possible issues/problems/challenges

before the fight comes to you and knocks you on your ass because you didn't see it coming. Isn't that how most problems happen in life

anyhow? No one saw it coming, or if you did, you simply chose not to prepare for it. You'd never run a marathon with out preparing first,

right? Months of training runs, stretching, fine-tuning your nutrition. You'd never take a test without preparing first too (if you wanted to

do well) - studying, memorizing, answering practice questions. However, for whatever reason, I rarely ever see ANYONE prepare for the

inevitable in life - conflict, disagreement, hurt & pain; stress or worse yet, distress; parenting issues; unmet & broken expectations; unmet

or frustrated need fulfillment; and on and on and on. Are you tired of the STRUGGLE? The pain? The loss? The frustration? The blame?

Not experiencing the ever-increasing levels of passion, happiness, love? Start preparing! Trouble is UNAVOIDABLE when it comes to life.

Why? Because there life's hard; people walk around hurt, wounded, offended, disappointed - without ever getting the right skills for healing

the brokenness and loss we ALL experience. It's natural, but that doesn't mean you cannot thrive & still experience the peace, passion, happiness

& love you want on an ever increasing basis. It DOES MEAN you had better prepare, however.

I think I know what your thinking right about now. "Well, how CAN I prepare??" Stay tuned Batfans, because that's exactly the next question

I'm going to address very soon!

P.S.: Ready for more great solutions, strategies, & tips on how YOU CAN get the right divorce support so you can create your life EXACTLY

the way you want it? Go to: http://www.ProvenDivorceSupport.com/blog RIGHT NOW for more!

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