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Our eyes can convey some messages exactly, so it is often heard that eyes can speak.
Do you experience such a situation? You may look at a stranger in the bus, but the time is not very long. And he finds there is someone else staring at him, he must feel quite uncomfortable.
In our daily life, it is also the same. If someone else is staring at you for a long time, you can not help beginning to look at yourself and see if there is something wrong with yourself. If everything is normal, you will feel pretty angry because of other's long time staring. Eyes can speak, cannot them?
It is a rude and aggressive behavior to others if you staring too long time at somebody. But it is totally different when it refers to look at the opposite sex. If a man stare a women more than ten seconds and he still would not like remove his eyes away from this women. It is quite obvious that he want to make her know he adores her.
In the opposite, if two people are talking to each other, the speaker see the listener once in a while to make sure whether the listener is focusing on his attention to listen what the speaker said. But for the listener, he will look at the speaker always, this means he is listening carefully. This is a respect to each other.
If the person you are talking to stairs you from time to time and just like he wants quell you, you will have a scared sense. In a general way, it is usually doubt that liars will stair others for a long time. His eyes betray him he is lying. Because they think it is a good express of honest communication when their eyes look straightly to the speaker.
Actually, long time staring just fit for the lovers. They want to express their love to each other through the tenderly gaze for a long time. This is the good way show affection and some words are difficult to say.
Apparently, eyes contact should be on the basis of the relationship between two people and the particular situation.
Therefore, you can see something clearly from a person's eyes. If you want to judge whether someone is lying to you, you should watch his eyes. If you come across someone take his eyes focus on long time, congratulation, he is admiring you. Maybe he is your Mr. Right. Eyes are the windows to the soul. Look at other's eyes; you can get his some very important information.
