subject: We Had A Date And He Never Called Me [print this page] Being rejected makes you feel poweless by breaking you into pieces totally specifically your self-pride and honor. You start to sense that you are not strong enough and that if your ex boyfriend doesn?t need you, no body in the future will either.
Reach into your brain, grasp onto your negative thoughts, and throw them as far away from you as you reasonably can. It is a foolish opinion to fail to notice that you were a lovely, practical and self-confident individual before he came in your world, why you feel opposite now? It is not your significant other that causes you to feel valued and worthy, it is YOU!
Not in this situation or in under any circumstance, let him steal from you your value and standards, your true good persona, your trust and self-esteem, don't let any man take it from you. Not just exercising these characteristics applys to you, but they arrived from within you. He, nor any other person, does not make them and hand them to you, you establish them yourself. See where I?m leading with this? You don?t need him, nor anyone, to function and get you look whole and special. You already are.
Use this time to come back to yourself. Spend time with yourself exercising things that you love. What actions do you feel lively and happy? Do you love dancing? If so, why not get some evening classes? Do you love children? Perhaps sign up to be a mentor to a minor in your community.
Participating in activities that you truly love will bring out feelings of self-worth, and therefore confidence inside you once more. And the greatest thing is that your joy will be authentic and will have everything to do with you and nothing to do with your man. And even though at first it'll be difficult for you, start living on your life to the fullest every week will be to your advantage in the long run.
To cope with been dumped or to get over guy and move on is to keep yourself busy and actively take part in your chosen activities. Pretty soon, the trouble will slip, and you?ll be left with spirit that is acceptable because you given yourself a chance - not your ex-boyfriend or anyone else. In the future, the marvelous YOU will be full of assurance and delight that you?ll no uncertainty have to avoid all the desperate guys who can't deal with a true lady!
Meanwhile, remember, you are not the only one. The light at the end of the tunnel is reachable, once you get close to it I assure you?ll see the light.
