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How are some women able to achieve outstanding success in their marrieges despite marital hicupps?
How are some women able to overcome marital problems when ordinarilly you may see them as not being capable to handle marital issues?
How are some women able to achieve significant success in their marriages inspite of the odds against marriages?
How are some women able to rise to the top of their marital lives inspite of delicate and sensitive issues in marriages?
To those who desire to find answers to these questions; to those who desire to breakthrough the odds standing against their marriages; to those who are passionate about living blissful marital lives;this article will be most helpful and may become your companion.
Marriage has designed right from the foundation of the earth as the union of a man and a woman to be legitimately married and live together as husband and wife.God's intension of marriage was that the two couples would live together peacefully as husband and wife.But some couple experiences some marital problems.What could be the cause?I am not going to bore you with some sleep drawing article.I am going to lay emphasis on why some married women are not able to keep their martrimonial homes.I will high some glaring factors why some married women are not able to keep their matrimonail home.
Character
So many women are so crazy about getting married to a rich man, an world acknowledged businessman, a personality e.t. I am not disputing the fact that you shouln't get married to a personality,But that should not be you priority.Study his character.Remember that you are not going to get married to a personality but to a character.
Understanding
So many women lacks understanding most especially in areas that involves sensitive issues like understanding your husband's mood, his finances,his timing e.t.c.Before you engage into a disscussion with him,you have to understand his his mood.Did he have a nice day at the office?did his business go on well with him?these and many more questions should be asked before engaging into a conversation with him.
In like wise manner,you have to understand his finances.Does he have the expected amount thai i want to request from him?Does he have an outstanding budget?So many men hates it when their partner demands for money at the time when they do not have so much with them,or they have made an outstanding budget.The same goes with his timing.Time when he is in the mood to take a step in carrying out his responsiblities towars you.
Love
Love a man for what he is and whom he is.Don't love a man because of his money or his stardom.Love him for his character,his caring abilities towards you and his affections towards you.
Maturity
It is an inevitable fact that there must be conflict in every aspect of the human endeavour,but not withstanding,these conflicts has to be handled maturedly.So many women are temperamental.They lack the patience to handle critical marital issues.The only language that marriage respects is"MATURITY".Why?Simply because maturity bridges so many conflicts.
In order for women to keep their martrimonial homes,they :
1.Marry a man because of his character and not because of his personal achievements
2.Have an in depth understanding of her partner's mood,finances and timing
3.Love the man for his character and not for his money
4.Apply maturity towards sensitive marital issues
Marriage is to be enjoyed loved and cherished if only we apply thes simple rules of marital bliss.
