subject: Addressing Those Sex Toy Rumors - Here Are The Facts [print this page] Addressing Those Sex Toy Rumors - Here Are The Facts
When the topic of sex toys comes up, you may here people laugh or say he or she does not need to use a sex toy. You may even be one of those people who laugh, or snicker at the thought of using a vibrator, masturbation sleeve, or other sexual product. Depending who you speak with, there are individuals who are afraid to use or buy sex toys out of fear ofembarrassment, shame, or the feeling of being desperate. Although I work in the sex toy industry, customers who I have spoken with come from all types of backgrounds, have different types of careers, including singles and happily married couples. Before you or someone else judges sex toys or the users of sex toys, read the below rumors. It is time to set the facts straight about adult toys and understand why an individual can benefit from using a sex toy.
Rumor 1 - Using sex toys are for sex maniacs, perverts, and desperate individuals.
Fact - People who use sex toys are from all different types of backgrounds, work in various types of careers, and could very well be your next door neighbor or close friend. Individuals who use sex toys are just like you and me. Using a sex toy can allow an individual to become more comfortable with themselves, be more familiar with what his or her body responds to sexually, and also bring couples closer together. In our business, I have spoken to doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc. People who lead normal lives.
Rumor 2 - Excessive use of sex toys can cause physical damage.
Fact - There is no evidence that suggests that using sex toys causes any damage to your body, except if you are using the sex toy improperly. For example, if you try to smack someone with your vibrator, that could cause physical damage. Just like a lamp can cause physical damage. Get what I mean?
Rumor 3 - Sex won't feel as good if I use a sex toy.
Fact: Using a sex toy will not take away from your sexual experience. You will no become numb down there because you use a sex toy. Using a sex toy can actually increase your stimulation and is a great addition to foreplay. For example, you can incorporate a clitoral vibrator during foreplay to increase your sexual arousal or even during sexual intercourse to enhance the experience.
Rumor 4 - You have to spend a lot of money to get a good sex toy
Fact: You do not have to spend a lot of money to get a good product. There are a lot of affordable sex toys even under $20 that are quite effective and powerful.
Rumor 5 - I will become addicted to using a sex toy.
Fact: Using a sex toy such as a vibrator is often a very pleasureful experience. However, a sex toy is not a drug where you will become addicted and need to use it to become sexually stimulated. Individuals who frequently use sex toys for masturbation still enjoy sex without using one.
Rumor 6 - My partner will not want to have sex anymore and will replace me with his or her sex toy.
Fact: A sex toy such as a vibrator or a masturbation sleeve will never replace a human being. There is nothing in comparison to the intimacy with another person. A sex toy does not hold emotions and will not hurt your relationship. Instead of being intimated or fearing the use of a sex toy, bring one into your relationship which can add excitement and more enjoyment to the bedroom.
