subject: Getting Back The Guy That Broke Up With You - The One Thing You Must Do If You Want Your Ex Back [print this page] Getting Back The Guy That Broke Up With You - The One Thing You Must Do If You Want Your Ex Back
Having the guy you love tell you he wants to move on can be the worst time of your life. You wish a big hole would open up and swallow you so you would not have to face another day without him. But, if you hope to have any chance of getting him back, you have to stop thinking that way. There is a way to get back the guy that broke up with you. Learn the one thing you must do if you want your ex back.
First of all you cannot dwell on the breakup, you need to think of your actions right now. If you make the wrong moves, your ex will keep as far away from him as possible. If you make the right moves you will be pulling him back and not pushing him away. Almost all breakups can have a happy ending if you know how to go about it. The problem will be that you want things to happen too fast and you make things worse.
If you give him any indication that you want him back and cannot live without him, you will make it harder to get your ex back. By showing weakness you will be telling the guy that broke up with you that he owns you and he can have you back anytime he chooses. That gives him a free ticket to go out and date and have fun. If he does not find anything interesting, he knows you will be there patiently waiting to take him back.
If you want him back, you are going to have to cut all ties with him. Do try to contact him in any way. Face the fact that he is no longer your boyfriend and move on with your life. This will get his attention quick. He was expecting you to try to get him back, and when you don't he will feel rejected. To add to his dismay, drop out of sight. Take a trip and visit relative, or just go on a mini vacation.
The guy that broke up with you will feel like you have deserted him. He will wonder if you have run off with some other guy. When that happens, he will want you again. What will cause this sudden change in him? Simply the fact that he is a man. Men always want what they cannot have. By taking yourself out of his life, he feels the need for you. Creating that need is the one thing you must do if you want your ex back.
