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You seem to have made up your mind about the guy in your life, but are not sure that he is completely in love with you and wants to commit to you. This is a phase that most women go through at some point in their relationship. If you need to know how to win him over completely and commit to you, then take a look at these tips.
Don't let him down
Men do get fed up and disinterested after a while because the woman they fall in love with turn out to be a big disappointment later on. Women who grow slack and uncaring after a while, have themselves to blame. Make sure that you don't let him down and stay true to your promises and vows and you will win him over.
Try not to disappoint him in any way
Remember that he will have certain expectations from you just as you have expectations where he is concerned. Do your best not to disappoint him in any way. If you come up to scratch, you are bound to make him admire and love you more. If he recognizes that you are doing your best in the relationship - he will want to commit to you.
Show him that he need not fear commitment
Sure as most men fear commitment and marriage because they do not want to face responsibilities and lose their freedom, you can put him at rest about how things will be after he commits. Show him that he need not be afraid to make a commitment and that it will only be the best thing for him and you.
Make him mesmerized by your personality and charisma
If your beau finds out that you are constantly proving to him and to the world that you are an exciting, stimulating and a charming person, he will stick around to come to know you better. Let him see various facets of your personality unfold before his very eyes. Just as he begins to think that he knows you well, delight him by showing him a new fascinating side to your personality and he will be completely won over.
Make him ache with desire for you
You would have to be pretty dumb not to know that if you keep your man physically satisfied in every way, he is going to be crazy about you and would not want to lose you. Make him addicted to your kind of loving. Become madly irresistible and he will want to commit in order to have you.
Give him space and don't get too possessive
One of the biggest fears that a man has is to lose his "freedom". He has nightmares of being tied to your apron strings or being chained to you after marriage. Let him know right from the beginning that you do not plan to clip his wings in any way and he will be thrilled.
Accept him and don't have too many expectations
No man wants to know that he has flaws. Having you criticize his every move will make him want to run away from you. He does not want to be tied down to a woman who does not accept him and love him for who he is! Don't expect too much neither place him on a pedestal and things will be fine between you.
