subject: What Goes on in a Man's Mind Which Makes Him Lose Interest So Easily? Follow These Tips Right Away [print this page] What Goes on in a Man's Mind Which Makes Him Lose Interest So Easily? Follow These Tips Right Away
Women are often referred to as fickle-minded but its men who get bored faster. So why do some guys suddenly turn cold?
There's no chemistry between you and him.
Being compatible is a very important ingredient in any relationship. Once you don't connect with your man, there's a great chance that he'll wander off and look for his soul mate elsewhere. Chemistry is more than just sexual connection. It is also attributed to mental and emotional compatibility.
You cast too large a shadow.
You must be a very independent and sexy woman that he feels too little when you're together. Rather than revel at the thought that you are a great and charming woman, this man feels insecure and so he'd choose to turn his attention elsewhere.
Predictability has invaded your relationship.
If this man is able to tell that you're going to cook steak again on Thursday night, then there's no doubt that he's going to lose interest pretty soon. Give him a few surprises every now and then so that he will have something to look forward to.
All the dramatic encounters have sucked him dry.
Men dislike drama and any confrontational scenes. They would rather resolve things with the use of logic and objective discussions. If you choose to cry and yell at him, or if you even use cuss words, then this man will feel belittled and he'll want out soon.
Commitment scares him.
He may love the thought that he's dating a woman that's self-assured in so many ways but once you start discussing about your cousin Emma's wedding or your girl friends' wonderful relationships, he might just back out at the very last minute!
The sensuous woman has disappeared.
This may be quite shallow but men would like to be visually pleased. If you start wearing his t-shirts or your pajamas more often, then he'll keep thinking back to those moments when you would wear sexy outfits and even flirt with him.
You've become too familiar all of a sudden.
Imagine knowing you just for a few weeks and now your toiletries are already all over his place! Imagine this man's fear as you slowly bring your girly stuff to his apartment! Doing this will only make him think that you're already trying to move in with him way before he even asks. You have to understand that you need to be independent of him and he needs to see that.
