subject: Why Is He Into Me One Minute and the Next Minute He Is Not? 7 Reasons Why Guys Tend to Do This [print this page] Why Is He Into Me One Minute and the Next Minute He Is Not? 7 Reasons Why Guys Tend to Do This
Has your guy being giving you mixed signals? Has he been making you feel special one minute and ignored the next? It is not really difficult to decode this type of behavior in men. Here are some excellent tips that will make you wiser where he is concerned and make you realize why he is so inconsistent.
He is immature and fickle
Basically if he is immature and fickle then this type of behavior is quite natural for him. It shows that he does not know his mind and is easily swayed. He is the type of man who reacts according to his emotions. His feelings are never deep enough to stay strong so he gives in to his whims and fancies.
He is just playing you
If your guy is just playing you and having a jolly good time with you, he will do things that satisfy him and him alone. This means that he will not worry about hurting your feelings or making you feel neglected. This in turn, proves that he does not really love you.
He has another fling going on in the side lines
Sometimes if a man is two timing his woman and is having an affair with another woman, he is never going to be "all there". He is bound to be distracted and restless with you. The moment he feels a "pull" in the opposite direction - he will leave you high and dry!
He is unsure of his feelings
Another reason for a man to blow hot and cold in this manner is due to insecurity. If your guy is not really sure of his feelings for you and is in doubt as to whether you are the right woman for him, he may give in to passion and desire one minute and then pull away and lose interest the moment he is satisfied.
He thinks it will make you crazy for him
Just like women love to play hard to get, men too play games that they feel will increase their attraction and make the woman crazy for them. If your man has been driving you crazy with his inconsistent behavior, making you feel like he loves you one minute and hates you the next, it could be that he is trying to get you to chase him!
He can't make up his mind about you
If he can't make up his mind about you and is wondering whether it is a good thing to continue leading you on, he will find himself alternating between demonstrating his love and trying to push you away. Once he is sure of you and convinced of his feelings for you this type of behavior will stop!
He's afraid to get serious
In case he is not yet ready to commit to you and get into a long term relationship he will be afraid to get too serious with you. Maybe you are too pushy and show him that you are expecting him to pop the question and it frightens him. If he is just unprepared for any sort of commitment he will cool off the moment he finds you too pushy or demanding.
