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Needs And Behaviors
Since the beginning of human species behavior has occupied a siginificant position in our lives.According to the behavior of the persons we are able to understand what they need.It is of vital importance in organizations,families and society.Studying the behavior is vital to have a harmonious and peaceful living.After understanding the behavior we should develop a strategy about our dealings with the persons concerned so that we can better motivate them and guide them in any field of life so as to achive our goals.The behaviors of persons can not be ignored and if so it will give rise to conflicts in families,organizations and societies.
Internalised behaviour-We come across many internalised behaviours in our lives which though not expressed affect greatly our work processes.We should be vigilant about these internalised behaviour and study the nature and cause.We should amicably express our anguish to the higher authorities so as to avoid any unplesant situations in future.Surpressed anger is more dangareous than expressed anger.We should not surpress our internalised reactions rather we should express them to our collegues and authorities by amicable discussions so that those reactions will be diffused and by that we will also feel relaxed.Some times our complaints may be ingenuine,false and invalid.we should take care of the ingenuine mental reactions and try to diffuse them by engaging ourselves in creative activities.
Self determination-We should be able to determine ourselves by ourselves.Our internal reactions are the cause of our mental processes and we should understand where from those thought processes are coming.Once we are able to determine the cause of our thought processes we can modify the processes if they are ingenuine and can act on them if they are genuine by directly expressing our grivances against the particular activity of our collegues and authority.We should be able to have a control over our internal behavior,then we can be able to control the behavior of others.This is of great importance because it shows us the light regarding where we are going wroung and by that light we are able to judge others and achive our goals.
External behaviors-The external behaviors of employees are expressed in the form of anger,scolding,grumbling,showing a irritated face,making an irritated sound and noncooperating with the fellow employees and the higher boss.In these situations great deal of patience is required for the person on whom these behaviours are targeted.He should patiently understand that person and the cause of that behaviour.Each behavior has a cause and people have reasons for behaving in a manner they behave and willingness for the things they do.Each behaviour is caused and each should have patience in every situations of life to find out that cause so as to develop family,organization and society.
Internal needs-We sometimes have many internal needs which we do not express generally.Needs are some times in unconscious state in ourselves.We should be aware of those unconscious needs and try to fulfill it in an organised way so as to have a better life and work in a motivated manner.If one is aware of one's needs and how to satisfy them most of the time his morale is high.Needs determine the behaviour.So we should not surpress our internal needs and try to satisfy them in a harmonious way.Needs for recognition,needs to get a better job,needs to be loved ,needs to have a beautiful partner are most of the time internalised.These needs should not be surpressed rather they should be fulfilled ,other wise they will adversly affect our thought processes there by reducing our potential for work.
Goal directed behaviour-Our behaviours should be goal directed.We should know exactly what we want in life and should also know what exactly we are thinking,so that we can have a behavior which will be goal directed and help us not only to fulfill our needs but also we can cater to the needs of the organizations.Needs should be genuine and only sincere prayers are answered.So we should have genuine needs so as to be loved in the family,society and organizations.We should have a greater power to visualise our needs and should work accordingly,then our behaviors will be modified and we will contribute more to family,organization and society.We should set goals in our lives and convert the goals in to actions and we will get results.
Imaginary behaviour-Some times we imagine many kinds of behaviors and invite them in to our lives.If we have a soothing imaginary behavior then it is good.If our imaginary behaviors are full of anger and hatred then problem arises.We should be very careful for that aspect of behavior.This arises due to our fear and guilt feelings.We should irradicate the negetive tendencies from our lives.then fear and guilty feelings will automatically go away.We should not have imagined mental inadequacy,rather we should imagine that we are the children of the All mighty and we are the owner of abudant property.Feeling of lack should not be there in our minds.If we concentrate on the lack of something then that lack increases.We are the children of the Divine and we can get everything and any thing by our wish and command.If we imagine like the great poets,writter and scientists then we will be better and respected individuals and we can love ourselves more,which wil be carried forward to our work front.
Behaviour is the friend,philosopher and guide-Our behavior is our friend,philosopher and guide.We can learn many things from our behaviors either external and internal.After each behavior we should ask ourselves what we have learnt from that behavior.We should sense a behavior and should know whether it is helping us or making us weak.Then we will be able to know in which way we should behave.Behaviour is our best friend.We should modify it if it is wroung.then it will take us to a greater height.It will show us the light and give us different eyes to look and deal with persons so as to excel in any field of life.
Needs determine our behaviors.By getting a grasp of our needs and satisfying them in a scientific manner we can have the most suitable behaviors and can cater more to family,organization and society.
