subject: Want to Get Your Ex Back? If Yes! Here Is How You Should Act Around Them to Impress Them Again [print this page] Want to Get Your Ex Back? If Yes! Here Is How You Should Act Around Them to Impress Them Again
Getting back to the daily grind can be difficult after a breakup. But it's even more challenging when your ex is someone you have to see everyday. He could be a guy from school, or work, or maybe a common friend you really can't avoid. That absolutely doesn't mean you need to sleep under a rock for the rest of your life. There are easy ways you can act around your ex without seeming too desperate or nonchalant.
Don't go out alone. After a breakup, do not seclude yourself from the crowd. If your friends are there to cheer you up, take advantage of it all the way. If you know you're going to bump into your ex, bring along your group of happy, blooming friends, and you will surely fit into the picture perfectly. Even when you're feeling blue within, your friends can make it look like you're having the time of your life after a breakup.
Don't step out in your sweatpants. He's your ex, but still, he's a guy and is visually stimulated. Step out of your pajamas and into your hottest little black mini dress. Get a makeover, and strut in your heels. You'll not only feel a boost of confidence - you will also forget you are actually stalking your ex, because you'd be so busy getting admired by other people.
Stop the staring game. Whether your ex is alone, or is with somebody new, it is a general rule: It is always rude to stare. It spells out an air of neediness and jealousy. You can look at him and gaze, and even throw a nice smile once in a while, but there's no need to stare. It could make him and his companion uncomfortable.
Never compare. Resist the urge to be loud. Sometimes, when we would like to get attention, we do crazy things that make us look idiots to other people. Say you meet your ex at a party - you start flinging your arms and dancing like a freak, and screaming on the dance floor. While everyone may rave about your whole new attitude, your ex will see these efforts as a desperate means to get attention.
Mean business. If you're constantly worried about running into your ex at work or at school, act as you normally would in the professional setting. Don't throw on an act of loneliness, or desperation, and never tell everyone in the office that you've broken up. It will only give you an air of desperation, and when words reach your ex, he will think the exact same time.
Make small talk. Here's the key word - "small talk". "Hey, how are you?" is a great way to start a conversation. Or, you could simply ask, "Who are you with?" and wave over to his friends then walk away. Why is small talk important? First, it tells him you are not bitter, and that you're mature enough to understand that when it's over, you don't have to be a total stranger. Also, it shows him you are confident and are totally over him. That'll make him wonder.
