subject: What If My Ex Boyfriend Has Moved On [print this page] Watching your ex boyfriend dating another gal is considered the cruelest moment when you are still falling deep for him. However, it may be the clearest moment for you to realize about your true sensation for him. If you come to a conclusion that you want him back, the first thing you have to ensure is whether your ex boyfriend has moved on. Below are some steps for your reference. One of the most common approaches tested by most women is to purposely provoke the jealousy of their ex boyfriends' heart. This extreme strategy actually won't work well. Instead of winning back his love, you are pushing him toward accepting you already have someone and he should move on with his life. Once he has accepted the scene and make up his mind, no matter how many guys you date, he will only show indifferent attitude. Therefore, you must not make this mistake because it doesn't seem fair to any party. If it really happens that your ex boyfriend has moved on with his new lover, you should switch to play best friend role. It is rare that men keep in touch with their ex girlfriend after a split, particularly when there is someone new. If both of you are still friend, the more you communicate with him, the bigger chance you stand in winning him back. By learning about your opponent (problem between him and her), you can figure out a better strategy to prevail over her. It should always be kept in mind that you should influence him in a positive way so that your beautiful image can always appear forefront in his mind. In conclusion, even if your ex boyfriend has moved on, there are still ways to rescue your relationship and rekindle the love between both of you.