subject: Social Dynamics is a Social Performance [print this page] Social Dynamics is a Social Performance Social Dynamics is a Social Performance
Social interaction is like performing in a movie scene. You think of your environment you are in as your movie scene and you perform in it.
But what if you are in an unfamiliar situation and don't know how to perform socially (script-less shall we say)?
Have you ever wondered why life in movies are always so much more interesting than this boring mundane every day life?
Shall we give credit to some of those great screenwriters?
Seems like screenwriters know a lot about social dynamics interaction, social psychology, human behavior and how people act and how the other person will react in response to that stimulus.
I highly recommend anybody to get involved in learning screenplay because you can learn a lot about structure of human interactions and some great human responses.
Watch some great movies that are not too out there where the character can actually be an everyday real person, and notice how he responses to other people and the world.
Watching comedy shows you can learn a lot about humor, and why it is funny and why people laugh, but importantly, take notice of the character that is causing the most humor. Notice his characterization, the way he acts and his delivery.
And as much as we all hate them, you can learn a lot from watching reality shows. Not those game shows, but shows where it involved people constantly interacting with each other, and then notice how the dynamics change when the other person is not there behind their back. As you know you what they say, to get somebody to express how they truly feel about you, get them drunk and let them start talking about you when you are not in their presence.
Another thing I always recommend is getting involved in theater and acting, and especially learning improvisation is the most invaluable skill anybody can get involved in. They can help you a lot to help improve your social performance whenever you out in social gatherings.
Think of yourself as a versatile actor able to adapt to the ideal character for that scene and how he would handle it effectively.
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