subject: How can I get back with my ex? [print this page] How can I get back with my ex? How can I get back with my ex?
Breaking up with someone you love is very emotional. You might get sad, depressed and just generally miss them.
Asking yourself "how can I get back with my ex" is perfectly normal. You can get back with your ex, as long as you don't screw up your chances.
I'm going to give you some advice on what to do.
Don't play games. This can be trying to make your ex think that you don't care or you care more than you really do, either way you're trying to manipulate someone and that can give you a feeling of power, which disappears as soon as your ex figures it out.
Another game that some will try to play is pretending to date someone else or even be in love with someone else. This is meant to make your ex jealous, but it can backfire, making your ex feel like there's no chance of getting back together.
There's no way to know what effect these games are going to have on your ex. And if it's going to make your break up permanent, you won't know until it's too late.
Be nice to your ex. Break ups are painful and can make you angry. But if you want to get back with your ex you're at least willing to forgive him or her. If you weren't willing to forgive your ex for whatever caused the break up you wouldn't want to get back together, you'd be happy that it ended.
Think about how you've been treating your ex. If you were your ex would you want to be around you? Would you enjoy spending time with you? Would you try to avoid being around you? Even if your angry don't show it, keep your emotions under control, be someone that they can miss.
These few tips will help you get started on getting your ex back.
