subject: Six Mind-sets Hinder Interpersonal Relationship [print this page] Six Mind-sets Hinder Interpersonal Relationship
After a follow-up survey, social psychologists found that people who have an unhealthy psychological state are often unable to have a harmonious, friendly and trustworthy relationship. In order to have a happy, harmonious relationships, social psychologists summarized some common adverse psychological state showed in the following. People, especially for women, should try to avoid such state during communication with other.
Inferiority
Because of looks, build and other factors, some women have inferiority complex during communication. They can not explain their own views, hesitate to do things, lack of courage and not have their own minds. As a result, they can't offer valuable comments and suggestions, gradually, other people would feel that it is a waste of time when getting along with them and will naturally shy away.
Jealousy
Some people say that jealousy is the nature of women, if so, women should pay more attention at this point in the course of dealings with people. You'd better follow these rules, praise other people's strong point and achievements, not to expect others people suffer from unfortunate things as you. Just think, people who are jealous of others would never give good faith and a warm in interpersonal communication.
Skeptical
The greatest taboo among friends is suspicion. Some people always suspect that someone is saying bad things about them or even do things against themselves. Such people like to gossip, make friends think that they are troublemakers.
Selfishness
Some people always want to benefit from others, if not, they are not willing to contact with people. Such Selfishness is easy to hurt others. Once people recognized your true face, they will firmly break the contacts.
Lack of sincerity
In dealings with others, somebody lack of sincerity and consider friendship between other as playgame. There would be no deep psychological exchanges no matter with whom. When people need help, they often can't be found.
Inhospitality
People with such mind-set always consider themselves as the best one on the earth and think the communication between others is a charity or gift to others. They often feel best about themselves and indifferent to other people, by this way, nodoby want to contact with them and naturally they have no friends.
