subject: How to Attract Girls and Escalate to Touching in a Conversation [print this page] How to Attract Girls and Escalate to Touching in a Conversation
Body language is one thing that can make women feel attracted to you. Attraction is not just about the woman thinking you're hot, she has to feel prompted to respond to the signals you are giving out. If you can talk but can't touch when it's crucial for you to do so, then you won't be able to escalate. By touching, you can turn the whole thing from a simple conversation to a sexual one.
You should touch a woman when you can, especially if it's your first time meeting her. When you dish out your opener, make sure you touch a woman, even if it's just a handshake or a high five. If you're with a group of ladies, touch each one at one point in the conversation. Don't leave anyone out.
It's better to do your touching on the front or sides. You must never touch a girl from behind if you don't want to freak her out. Make her see that you're touching her hand or arm instead of sneaking up to her and touching her back.
Touching should not be sexual at first. You can make it playful or a part of your conversation. Party games, or magic tricks are a great opportunity to do some touching. You can give her a small push; bump her a bit when you feel like scooting over or touching her cheek lightly. These gestures are very platonic, and are things you can do with a relative or a female friend.
More flirtatious and sexual touching can occur later on when she becomes accustomed to your touch. This is the main objective of touching her platonically. Once she's used to your touching, you can escalate gradually until she feels the sexual tension building.
If you come on too strong in the beginning, she will feel that you're overwhelming her with sexual gestures. Some women, even those who are actually looking for sex, will act coy and pretend that they want to be wooed before they put out. Jumping all over her won't get you far, so you should do what you can to relax her and make her open up.
A really sexual conversation consists of a steady stream of playful touching. If you keep at it, it's going to be obvious that there's something going between you. Then, moving on to the next stage will be easier for her and for you.
