subject: How to Attract Girls With a Touch in a Conversation [print this page] How to Attract Girls With a Touch in a Conversation
Body talk is more than just a confident pose and lots of eye contact. To be able to truly communicate your affections and intentions to a woman, you should incorporate touching during a conversation. But there is a subtlety involved to touching a woman. You should know the right timing, as well as the right way to do the touching.
Touch her as soon as you meet her. Your opener can be something that has to do with touching hands, exchanging high fives and others. If it's a group of ladies you're with, you should take your time so that you can touch them at least once before you go to another group. Your touching should not be contrived, but rather natural and automatic.
As a rule, I always touch a girl from the front or the sides. It's not a good idea to touch a girl from behind for obvious reasons. Wouldn't you be completely freaked out if someone touched you on your shoulders from behind? It's sneaky and it does nothing for your intention of getting her sexually attracted to you.
Now, touching does not always have a sexual connotation, even if your goal is to make the interaction more sexual. Touching can be any simple thing that involves skin to skin contact like shaking hands and tapping your finger on her forehead. A soft push when you're kidding around or slightly drawing her near when someone wants to walk through and the girl is in the way. Flicking her with your finger when she says something naughty or touching her on the arm when you want to tell her something are examples of platonic touching.
Sexual encounters almost always start with a single touch. When you touch a woman, she gets accustomed to how your skin feels on her skin. So, the next time you touch her, she won't be so alarmed. It's easy to persuade a woman to drop her guard when you're continually touching her.
If you come at her initially and start flirting while touching her intimately, you'll get slapped. You have to warm her up to the touch of your hand on her arm, or your cheek on her cheek. A guy who gets too excited and touches a woman all over is like a dog jumping up and down asking for a doggy treat. At the early stages of seduction, touching is very important, but you need to tone down the desperation.
If she enjoys the conversation, you can punctuate each punch line with a touch, a pinch on the cheek or a pat on her head. When she's ready, you can touch her in a way that suggests your intention to sleep with her. If you've been touching her for a time before you go for it, the sex will happen naturally.
