subject: Homeschooling and the Issue of Socialization [print this page] Homeschooling and the Issue of Socialization
One curious aspect concerning homeschooling and socialization is there are no guarantees. For example, there are a lot of children who undergo the public, or private, school experience and emerge with underdeveloped social skills. The negative social atmosphere can be too much for some children. For parents who plan to homeschool their children, there are several approaches they can consider. You'll basically be engaging in research and learning. But just keep in mind you may be able to find a healthy amount of available activities for children who are home-schooled.
There is little debate that the quality of the public and overall institutional education environment is healthy. The well publicized violent events we've referred to are just the most extreme examples of a widespread problem. Considering this, as long as the parents are dedicated, it's hard to see how home schooling isn't a better alternative in most cases. Indeed, homeschooling gives both the parent/teacher and the students more freedom to explore the world. it's quite simple for parents to provide their kids with many valuable lessons in the form of trips, cultural events and hands on experiences.
4-H clubs have been around for years and you've probably heard about them. Your child can join any of their various groups, depending on his or her interests. Provided your child is interested, this is something all your children can be involved in. In addition to being a great way for your children to meet others, 4-H clubs have no cost to join. Keep in mind that children network to a greater extent than years ago, and the internet is largely responsible for that. So, the kids your children meet through 4-H clubs will most likely introduce them to their friends.
However, socializing with peers of the same age can distort personal expression and development. Think about what happens in most public schools and this can't be doubted. Children typically just want to be accepted. Trying to fit in with their peers is the primary way they try to get accepted. This is what leads to the formation of cliques. This behavior may be understandable, but it often costs the kids their personal identity and expression.
This debate regarding socialization and homeschooling has been around for a long time. There will always be relevant points on either side. It is important for all parents to ensure that their homeschooler has healthy social outlets available to them. That is probably not difficult to do unless the family is in a remote area.
