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When you flirt with text, you take all the personality, emotions, facial expressions, vocalizations and body language out of communicating. So you have to make up for this by the way you say things and what you say when you flirt with text. To flirt with text, there are no real rules or regulations, but here are a few ideas to help you get by.
To flirt with text, how about sending a short but sweet message about how a person looked when you saw them last? If she was wearing your favorite color of blue and it made her eyes look like pools of water in summer, flirting with text could mean you typing "that blue shirt made your eyes look like topaz pools of heaven". It's light but means that she is accepting a compliment and should respond. If you don't want to go into that much detail, how about flirting with text by sending a message that says "flowers are beautiful, but even diamonds can't stand next to your shine." Another easy message to send with flirting with text is "hey sweetness, you looked hot today but that's the same as every other day for you". Pick out something small you want to say that is not sexual in nature and still is personal enough to make them feel like you are only talking to them.
When to flirt with text is the most important thing to get a grasp of. If he or she just gave you their number but did not seem as though they really wanted to give it to you, don't flirt with text. They probably won't respond and you are wasting your time and theirs. But if he or she willingly gave their number to you, they are waiting to see what you will say. You should not wait like the standard dating rules 1 or 3 days to text, go ahead and do it now. This doesn't mean you have to do it as they are walking away, but if you feel the urge; go ahead. That person will know that you actually wanted their number if you do it sooner rather than later and will feel like you wanted to talk to them because they are important.
To flirt with text, you have to keep your ideas straight and make a good impression. Even though you already made an impression to get the number, you have to make another one over the phone. If you don't like talking on the phone and texting will be your major means of communicating with this person, you better be good at it. Therefore don't just text the first thing that pops into your head, because most of the time the messages that say "hey how is your day?" will get ignored and will not be answered. But if you text something thought out or different like "I see you opted for fantastic today" will get a response. Avoid the corny and worn out pick up lines if you actually like the person or you won't ever get a response.
