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To flirt with SMS, you have to have a cell phone with this option. Texting is easy and flirting with SMS is fun for both parties. Flirting with SMS gives you the chance to flirt without dealing with possible rejection that face to face encounters offer. How to flirt with SMS can be easy and fun when you are having good conversation that stemmed from a simple text with someone you like.
To flirt with SMS, you will need to first get her number, which you are on your own with as everyone has their own tendencies and methods for this. Once you get the number, it is time to figure out what to say, when to say it and how. There are no three day rules like dating, you can flirt with SMS as soon as you get the number and it is not considered desperate or needy; but is considered flattery. So the sooner you flirt with SMS, the better he or she will feel when you do. This lets them know that you actually wanted their number and you're not asking for it just to have it.
Now what to say when flirting with SMS: if this is your first text to him or her you want to make an impression. Even though you made a first impression when you asked for the number, you are making another one entirely based on this message. So you don't want to be boring or regular. Using a simple message like "how are you doing" will not get the person's attention and will likely get ignored. So create a pet name for the person and use it in the message. For example you could use Cheeky Chick, Muscle Bucket, Hair Band or Lover as nicknames in the message to peak the person's interest. The message should be a general flirt and not something too personal to begin with, until they take it to that level. Always leave them holding the bag, so that they feel they are in control. Your message should be light and fun and give them a reason to respond. For example you could SMS "Lover, what kind of trouble are you in now?" or "Hey beefcake, how hard is it to look that good?" These types of questions peak interest and require a response from the other person. You don't always have to follow up with a question, but it is a sure fire way of getting an answer out of them.
Lastly, when flirting with SMS, you want to keep it light and don't get too personal. Asking about the size of someone's clothing or body parts is not acceptable by any means, under any circumstances. If a person wants you to know these things, he or she will tell you without you asking. It is considered rude and flat out disrespectful to ask these things and if you do, you will probably be ignored in person and on the phone through texts and other messages.
