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The rise of the gay community in world has been remarkable in recent years and this should be cause for reflection as it continues to face problems ranging from discrimination and persecution, to be branded as immoral, perverted or sick.
Those who prefer the same sex to share tastes and affections claim equal opportunities as its counterpart, heterosexuals, just as in countries like the Netherlands or England, where they are recognized even by the church, allowing the religious marriage "The company has before them an attitude of conviction, that physical and verbal assault."
"But the problems for homosexuals start from the same family environment, where they usually are rejected by their parents, which create a certain frustration with the growing. It is logical to find problems inside the home and outside it, are sought and identified with like-minded individuals with whom they share feelings and preferences, "said the specialist.
Identity unclear
The gay reaching adulthood from childhood has brought a sense of guilt over time has taken different nuances. It starts from 7 or 8 years, when it begins to be attracted little of the same age but who are the same sex, what causes anxiety and frustration at the inability to express it. Parents corresponds to open a channel of communication, which should have even more ways in the stage where they begin to define sexual characters (between 11 and 12 years old), so that they work for are no conflicts of adolescent with himself.
It is important to note that the small observed attitudes of their parents who will have preference for any of them, i.e., they identify with certain behaviors and even colors to wear. A high percentage of cases are clearly influenced by the attitude of parents towards the child, for example, in the case of a castrating mother overly penalizing the boy and threatens to charge him over with his father for not obeying, sentencing him to a possible beating, the child will have to take sides choose to confront the father who can hit or stick and follow the character of the mother, which happens most of the time. Thus, it gradually moves away of the male figure.
Interviewee referred to therein lies the importance of communication between all family members, to express dissatisfaction and sexual preferences, not suppressed so that later turn into frustrations that affect the future character of the boy. Many parents go to a psychologist or psychiatrist to solve the problem of small, assuming it is the only culprit, when in fact this is the result of what happens at home.
Over time the young will be in the dilemma of being open homosexual or repress their feelings. Thus there are different expressions within the gay community, such as:
* Assumed. It's honestly not hiding, leads a normal life and says it faces, without cause problems. Usually it is a mature thinking person, not exactly old, who is respected and does the same with others.
* Confluent. Whoever goes well in the gay circle, enjoy it, but not assumed as such, it represses.
* Reflective. He tells himself "I'm not, do not accept it, but I have an inclination towards it can not stand."
* Transvestite. He who likes to appear as women and dressing as such. Re your personality and turns, without any aggression.
* Transsexual. Looking becomes violated. Is a person of one sex who feels trapped in the body of another, and that is your problem release surgery performed surgery to alter their genitals?
* Bisexual. Feel attracted to both sexes and does not seek to transgress.
* The crazy. Catalogued and gay community itself, is absolutely free, no restrictions for himself. It is much exaggerated in its expression of personality.
All human beings
As humans, homosexual or gay faces the same problems or psychological health that is not, and goes to get help to solve them. "These people are also conflicts between couples, jealousy, infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction and more. Even are notorious problems of identity, do not know how they manifest in society, whether living in a double standard in which, by hand, are heads of family and other executive positions, must hide in order to unleash what makes them happy: the contact with people of the same sex.
This attempt to overcome the difficulties of identity and be recognized and respected in the environment in which they operate is currently making to join and it appears that more than ever. The truth is that still gaining ground, but not only by the increase in quantity but respect and intelligence that address the company's brand.
