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Is Double Your Dating, scam or legit? There has been a discussion online whether the principles David DeAngelo teaches in his famous book are real or just plain fake. Is he teaching just a bunch of gimmicks or do his teachings really work and help you attract the opposite sex? I guess the main question becomes; Is the author of the World's leading pick up book looking to deceive you or does he really have good intentions?
You're about to find out in this unbiased review. I'll just put it bluntly and say it like it is. If it sucks, you'll know it. If it doesn't, you'll know it too. Let's dive right into it
First of all, it's hard to tell what exactly David DeAngelo Double Your Dating teaches without knowing what it has to say first so I took the plunge and got my hands on a copy for a closer look. I figured it wouldn't kill me to at least try it. Come on, if I'm really serious about this, the least I can do is have a look at it.
Anyway, this article will have a full overview of what exactly David DeAngelo teaches in his book Double Your Dating and what my personal experience is with his book.
Ok, here is my honest David DeAngelo Double Your Dating review:
First of all, in his book Double Your Dating, David DeAngelo starts off explaining why so many men have a hard time attracting women. He believes social conditioning has dramatically increased men to fail with women. Men have been taught completely wrong things since the beginning of times, like being overly nice to women, buy them gifts, compliment them and impress them in all the wrong manners. It seems common sense, your logic tells you to be nice as it seems like the right thing to do, but it's wrong. Most men just follow a bunch of principles that are out-dated and don't work anymore, perhaps never did. What makes a woman sit up straight and pay attention is not a guy who is overly being nice. We can be all nice but we don't usually sleep with someone who is 'just nice', nothing more. Why would she sleep with YOU if every random guy is being nice to her? If every guy is doing the same thing?
Now is being nice bad?
No not necessarily, but according to David DeAngelo in Double Your Dating most guys just have a completely wrong approach to dating. Sometimes what works is quite the opposite, and can be very counterintuitive. This proves why a lot of women fall for bad boys. It's usually because these guys give them a thrill. These bad boys have certain qualities that the nice guys don't have. Nomatter how bad the guy could be, she still will be drawn to him because of the power of attraction. Women that are involved in relationships with bad guys are not necessarily attracted to the way the guy treats them, but usually to certain qualities he possesses.
These men usually have a strong character. They are masculine, dominant and very confident. They have a certain attitude. These are all qualities women really value in men, says David DeAngelo in Double Your Dating. There is a certain way in which to carry yourself that guarantees success and a certain way in which repels most women, knowing this is of vital importance. According to David DeAngelo Double Your Dating any man can make these little changes within himself that make him appear stronger, more confident and more appealing.
Now on the other hand, most men that fail with women are usually viewed by women as weak. Most of these guys display wussy behavior. It's timid, shy behavior that is usually caused by insecurity and cluelessness. That said, to be successful with women you have to be in a power position. You should be in control, not her. If you're not she will not treat you as her equal and will most definitely not develop romantic feelings for you.
David DeAngelo Double Your Dating also talks about the importance of having a strong character. This could be a trait, quality that defines you, something that makes you stand out. It's about bringing the best qualities within yourself out and really work them. David DeAngelo's major idea is that "attraction isn't a choice" - this is also a slogan on his website. He believes women can't be 'bribed' or pushed into experiencing attraction, for example by buying them gifts or acting overly nice. But he believes attraction can be evoked naturally. David DeAngelo says a woman will feel attraction for you naturally when she recognizes particular qualities and traits within you such as confidence, humor and independence. That said, these are all qualities that most men already possess but have to develop. It's really about bringing the best out in you and putting your best foot forward. According to David DeAngelo you must take effort to improve yourself in every little way if you want to be incredible with women.
His idea of the fact that women appreciate some traits more than others gave birth to his widely known concept, one that he defines as 'Cocky, Funny.'
David DeAngelo believes in particular that you have an irresistible combination when you mix 2 of the most powerful traits together such as cockiness and humor. Whereas being cocky usually communicates very strong confidence, almost arrogance, humor kind of makes up for it and it creates an interesting combination. One that women absolutely love.
David DeAngelo says in his book Double Your Dating humor goes a long way. And he is right, once you make someone laugh, a connection is made. If a woman laughs chances are she likes you. She is exactly where you want her to be with you. On the other hand cockiness gives you a certain edge. It basically communicates to her 'that you're not impressed easily by her looks or whatever'. And she has to try harder. Why it this powerful?
This is extremely powerful, because most guys act the opposite way. Most men drool over beautiful women and put them on a pedestal and without realizing this they lower themselves in social value. They literally give all their power away. I think by now you should understand the power of social value. Social value or high status is of huge importance to very attractive women as they usually only choose to interact with people of their own social status. Also there is nothing more powerful than a guy that stands out. You don't want to blend in. Guys who blend in don't get laid!
This is a hard concept to understand at first, but it all comes down to understanding basic human psychology, in this case female psychology. Incredible success with women happens when you learn to view things from the female perspective and act accordingly to it. This is where you have an advantage over other men. When you know how the human mind works, especially the female mind, you have the power to make her favor you over some other guy.
And this is very powerful. This is what successful guys understand. This book does an excellent job of laying out the hidden psychology in much detail and I personally feel this is a very interesting read and a concept you should grasp in order to attract women. It's a concept, that when once mastered and applied like David DeAngelo teaches in his book Double Your Dating , will shoot your success rate through the roof.
David DeAngelo Double Your Dating also says that most men fail with women because they lack confidence. Confidence, according to popular belief, is something that usually takes years to acquire but David DeAngelo gives you a crash course within his book Double Your Dating on how to develop strong inner confidence within record time just so that you're ready to get yourself out there and so that you don't feel shaky and self-conscious during interactions with women. Once you have acquired this little bit of confidence the rest will almost take care of itself and become easier
My overall take on Double Your Dating is, I think it's a very genuine book. David DeAngelo really appears as a cool dude who genuinely wants to help you and believes in your success. He is very honest about what has worked for him and what didn't.
Double Your Dating is perfect for guys who are in a place in their lives where they feel insecure around women or are completely clueless to what to do around women and how to act. If you're stuck in a routine of failure, this book might be your rescue, something that will break you out of it and will put you onto a path to success.
David DeAngelo Double Your Dating basically teaches you the A to Z to attracting women. David DeAngelo takes you by hand and literally walks you through every step of the process in his book, from approaching a woman to dating her, seducing her and sleeping with her.
If you've ever found yourself in a situation where you've approached a woman, opened a conversation but didn't know how to progress after the opener or got on a date but failed to make it to her doorstep or bedroom, in that case, this will make an excellent book that will help you handle those situations easily. I really recommend this book.
Most books on the other hand that I've personally read, usually have difficult, mind-boggling systems into place and some have come up with their own lingo. It's almost ridiculous. I know David DeAngelo Double Your Dating is an approach that most men will appreciate as David DeAngelo keeps it real and natural. This is perhaps the most natural approach you will ever find, as it doesn't dictate for you to change drastically, act macho or be someone that you're not.
My final opinion: Double Your Dating, Scam or Legit?
Definitely, not a scam, but a must have book that every man must read, or at least take time to read if he truly cares about his success with women, really takes this part of his life serious and is willing to improve when it comes to dating and meeting women.
