subject: Where Do You Get Advice To Get Your ex back? [print this page] Where Do You Get Advice To Get Your ex back?
What's the best relationship advice you can get? Obviously it is that which stops your break up from happening or helps you get your ex back. How you get that advice can be tricky at times, especially when you are seeking it from your friends or family. They may have loads of advice for you but where does their experience come from.
You may have a best friend that married right out of high school and has never gone through a break up like you. You may also have friends that go through new relationships every month. Would these be the best sources to get advice from? Even those that have truly experienced a break up my not be able to help because of the emotional pain that they experienced may cloud their judgment.
If you feel you want to get your ex back but believe it can never happen, stop those thoughts because it can happen. It will not be easy but if you do not try it will not happen. Many relationships remain broken because no one made any effort to fix it. Here's what you can do to get started at getting your ex back.
The first thing you must do is resist any effort to contact your ex. Sounds like the reverse of what you must do but you must do this. Take some time to get over the emotional aspect of this so you can think clearly. When you are thinking clearly again take time to figure out what went wrong with the relationship.
After you have done these two things and some time has gone by, give your ex a call to see if they would like to meet you for coffee or something at a neutral location. Do not talk about your past relationship if you can avoid it. You are going to try to start from scratch like its the first date the two of you have ever had. Do not expect to start over from where you left off, the relationship will fail again.
If you need help with what to do there are many excellent resources available on the internet to help you. Remember, if you do not try you will never know if the two of you could have made it the second time around.
