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Everyone has an opinion on how to get back together with an ex, some of your friends probably even told you to move on and find someone new. But if you know in your heart that getting back with your ex is right for you, then you need to start looking at ways to get them back.
If you are totally depressed, not sleeping and generally finding life difficult the first thing to do is get your head clear. To make the right decisions you have to be thinking straight. The majority of people panic and make mistakes. You might have taken some action already so here is a list of the things you should not be doing.
Do not call your ex at all hours asking for another chance. This includes texting and emailing. This is just going to make matters worse.
Do not apologize for all the mistakes that were made. Some people have even apologized for stuff they did not do.
Do not put yourself in a position where you are begging your ex to take you back
Do not promise to make changes that you are not going to make and in some situations there are things that should not be changed. Both parties need to compromise not just one.
At this point you have to do things differently to the crowd.
You need to focus on yourself and getting your head clear. You have to stop feeling desperate. When you are feeling desperate that is when you do things you would not normally do and often regret.
The first thing you need to do is let your ex go. At this point they want space, they are probably angry or disappointed with you and if you are in their face constantly trying to talk to them it will only strengthen their resolve to move on.
But if you are not in the picture they get a chance to calm down, they start remembering the good times. This approach also helps because it is the complete opposite of what they expected. They are going to start thinking about you in a more positive way. Have patience.
