subject: How To Get Back My Ex Quickly: The Most Important Tip [print this page] How To Get Back My Ex Quickly: The Most Important Tip
If you have been trying to work out the best way to get back with you ex then you are in luck. Sometimes all you need is a few tips and you are going to avoid a lot of pain and frustration.
There are no golden rules or magic bullets but there are suggestions that have been proven to work for hundreds of different couples wanting to get back together.
Instead of sitting down on your own and going over and over what you should have done, how you could have done things differently and how you are feeling, change it all around and try to get into their head.
This is the approach that is going to change everything.
Try and look at your relationship from their perspective, you will gain an insight into what went wrong and more importantly how to fix it. Once you are looking at things differently you will have much more empathy with your ex. Think about any of the arguments you had in the past, if you had been able to see it from their point of view and understood how they are feeling those arguments would have less important.
Before you approach your ex to show how you now have more empathy and understanding you need to give it time for the raw emotions to settle. Immediately after any breakup, things will be too tense between you to have that positive conversation you need.
Give your ex a month or so before you approach them, by that time they will usually agree to talk. Make it clear that you know things could have been handled better and you now understand where they were coming from.
Once your ex is relaxed with you, this is the time to talk about a future together. You want a fresh start and try to distance yourself from the past problems.
