subject: How to get Her Back Once and For All - 3 Secrets to Winning Your Special Lady Back for Life [print this page] How to get Her Back Once and For All - 3 Secrets to Winning Your Special Lady Back for Life
While break ups are inevitable, that does not mean they are for good. If you have recently lost your special lady to a fight that ended up in a falling out, you can still get her to love you again. Because women are complicated and fragile creatures, you will need certain techniques on how to get her back for good. The following secrets will help you melt her heart and get her to stay with you for keeps.
1. Respect her emotions.
Women are built to be emotional. If she screams at you with words that may seem hurtful, back off and bite your tongue but never snap back with your own grievances. The more you say, the less chances you have of ever getting her back. She may be the type who cries a lot, or the type who struggles with keeping it all in.
Understand one universal truth - every break up is bound to be painful, and regardless of what you see in her, you will need to respect that. Anger, confusion, frustration, disappointment and sadness are all possible reactions to a break up, but retaliating will only make things worse. Do not attempt to talk to her when you are feeling pretty upset because you might say things you will later on regret.
2. Think about what caused the falling out.
Every break up has a reason. You may have done something wrong, she may have had her faults, or the break up may have happened because of the two of you. If you want her back for good, stop pointing at whose fault it is. Think about how you contributed to the breakup.
A girl will usually be vocal about her needs and whether they are met. She may have mentioned this before the break up, or may have hinted at it several times during your relationship. Take a break and think about how your relationship progressed. If you aren't sure, politely ask her why. You will need to know what went wrong if you want her back for good.
3. Make sure she knows you're there, but don't stay too close.
It may be confusing, but keeping your distance while being there for her is important to balance. If you want her to love you again, you will need to make her feel that you still love her and are there for her. If you are totally absent, she will think you have moved on.
Respect her alone time and the space that she needs. If she says she is not ready to talk, back off and let her be. Smothering her might scare her away even more. Remember to ensure your presence as this will help her trust you again.
How you express your emotions might be very different from how your lady may express hers. When your ex says she doesn't want you in her life, she probably is confused still but may need to see that you still care. Your tricks will be reliant upon the type of person you are and the type that she is. But the above-mentioned techniques almost always work.
