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Have you been out every week-end trying to win a man's heart? Have you noticed how fierce the competition is and you don't know what to do to stand out in the crowd? Do all the women out there seem to have some advantage over you and you're feeling discouraged by it all? Some might have it easier than others, but every woman has the ability to capture the heart of a good man. Here's what you can do.
Temper your Urgency
Many women are just too eager to make any encounter work. The moment they spot a cute guy who kick starts their heart, they'll do anything to make the guy interested. To the guy this simply looks desperate, and few men are attracted to this. It can equate to too much pressure and the complete lack of a challenge. Men enjoy being challenged when they meet a woman, so don't be too eager to give him your heart before he's even made a move to earn it.
Leave your desperation at home and try to just have fun. If you don't put too much weight on each encounter you have with a great guy, you can relax and this will put him at ease as well. Conversations will then be easier and more amusing. Before you know it you're having a good time and laughing together and he's looking forward to seeing you again and again.
Surely you're going to look at the how you feel while you're with him and you'll examine everything you're learning about him. The more you learn, the more you'll fall in love with him. But remember that he wants to enjoy being with you as well. Make sure you pay attention to him and are duly impressed with what he has to say.
As time goes on, also show your appreciation and admiration. Overall you want him to feel good about the time he spends with you. This means accepting him as he is. There's really no point in falling for a guy, doing all this to win him over then going on a rampage to change virtually everything about him.
Love him as he is, just as you'd like him to love you for who you are. And give that love plenty of time to grow, for both your sakes. The slower it is in growing, the stronger and more long lasting that love will be.
