subject: Make a Guy Commit – Play Up to His Desires [print this page] Make a Guy Commit Play Up to His Desires
Are you increasingly frustrated as you try to get your guy to make that commitment to you? Is he aware of how you feel and he still isn't making a single move to commit to you? Do you think you might have to resort to threats and ultimatums if he doesn't make a move soon? Before you go to such radical tactics, read this article to see how you can smoothly lure him into committing instead of fighting about it.
Right from the get go guys' desire to commit isn't very strong. It comes to them more as an obligation rather than the life long dream it can be for some women. So convincing them can be difficult.
If on top of that innate fear, your feeding it with complaints, sour dispositions, demands and criticism, surely you can understand that the guy's natural fear is only being heightened.
When a guy falls in love with a woman, it's because she makes him feel great and he wants to spend and increased amount of time with her. Unfortunately, once women get guys to this point, they turn around and start harassing the guy, trying to get him to change virtually everything about him.
Love him as he is and show him that you admire and respect the man he is.
And don't be afraid to give him a breather every now and again. Clinging to him and spending every free minute with him isn't going to win you many points. He needs time to himself occasionally, and if you think about it, so do you.
Spend time doing what you love, all while allowing him the same. When he sees you respect him and that life with you will be far greater than life alone, he'll make that commitment.
