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Depressed After Being Left By Your Wife.
Look at these 5 strong pointers on how to keep going after being left by your wife:
I was absolutely destroyed when my wife walked out on me.
It is still fresh in my mind how I struggled for months just to exist. I couldn't function and couldn't accept the fact that I had to raise our children alone.
Realizing that my life had to move on took me forever.
My responsibilities of being a father could not be neglected. With the assistance of friends and family I was able to feel confident about myself again.
I began taking baby steps towards recovery. I figured out that my life really does have a purpose, as God has wonderful things in store for my future.
Perhaps you have also been left by your wife. You could be still struggling with this. There is definitely hope if this is what is happening.
I will share how I recovered from the pain and distress when my wife left me.
1. I didn't try to escape from my real feelings.
We males are supposed to hide our emotions and stay strong for our children. However, we are only human and feel pain just like everyone else. The tension and hurt we are feeling must be released. If you need to grieve and cry, go ahead.
2. My children were informed.
The situation could be made worse by hiding it from your children. Tell you children what's going on without going into a lot of detail. Give them an explanation why their parents have broken up.
3. I went to my family and friends for help.
I realized that I couldn't cope when my wife left me. I sought help from relatives and friends.
I asked if they could help me become a better father.
4. I stood up and began living my life once more.
I came to the conclusion that my life hadn't came to an end. I still had the responsibility of taking care of our children. I totally realized that I was truly blessed because of the great people in my life. Remember that life, despite all its imperfections, is still awesome.
5. Forgive.
This is very important. You will not be able to move ahead if you have an angry heart. Let go and forgive. There's no point in harboring pain and bitterness because it will eventually consume and destroy you.
Being left by your wife is very hard, but don't forget you can overcome it.
Never stop believing in yourself and you will see a light at the end of the tunnel.
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