subject: Steam Your Bed Sheets Up by Talking Dirty in the Bedroom [print this page] Steam Your Bed Sheets Up by Talking Dirty in the Bedroom
It s called dirt, nasty, naught talk and it really work. Yet fr lot f women talking dirty in bed is like lerning foreign language, they simply d not know what t say or ho to say it. They feel odd, werd nd embarrassed. How can they ue ords that they don't nrmally ue? Tey don't want to appear trashy, whoish r slutty nd yet they ant to add something to the bd talk. Mabe they orry that the an ill think badl f them?
No matter the reason that women do not ngage in the rt of dirty talking, it is well known fat tht men want it and hen women larn it the to enjoy t. S exatly ust wht is dirty talk? You my b surprised to find that there are extrmes n oth sides of thi con. You will have the woan who sas nothing, to the woman who screams out everything under the sun. Wht fit for yo is a personal thing tat only you will kno.
The first thng tht yo ned to do i discuss it with our bed mat. Be pen nd honest about wht your thoughts are on t. It eems that men hav alays had the go ahad to just say nd d wht they want esecially in te bedrom bt now i the time to take for yor on needs, ven if it s the need to please you an in a nw wa in the bedroom.
Here are som delightful little teasng words to us in foreplay. Forepla can e anything from talking on the phon, to when he i standng barbecuing something on the grill.
Just make i soft and naughty when you say the following:
1. Your voce make me o hot that I m touhing myslf. (Good fo phone)
2. I sw you wlk in te door and my bdy ached fr your touch.
3. Whimper softly and say "I can't wait to be alone wth you."
4. Your utt looks s god in thse jeans.
5. I had to cange y anties twic today because i was thinking of ou.
Dity talkng does not ned to b thos rude sexual XXX words, though thy d hav thei place! If thi i reall nw to yo and ou ar wanting to explore then set the mood for it. Mke t hot nd inviting by sing candles, set out wine, soft music and wear a new teddy r bab doll. Make sure h knows that yu are seducing hi.
It i hard to g from no dirty talk to talking dirty overnight, o wok up to t. There re ways t lead into t. Try moning more, oaxing him mor, whisper that you like what he s doing or lan in to his ar and tell him you wnt t know what he wnts you to do t hm, giggle seductvely and say "tonight I will do whateve ou want." Giv him rom to engage you and uild his own confidence up b encouraging im ith strong words of hi aility nd prowess. Make him feel like a conquering man!
Once h is engaged and ou re on the sme page thn drop little girly hints abot th things ou want hm t d to ou. "Oh yes bby pleae touh m more, o yah right thre..mmmm left left..Now don't stp..omg don't stop." By doing this yo are sowing him what you want t the ame time showing hi that he cn take car of you nd your want and needs. Men love to know that they are good in bed o tell them!
This is not the tme to b closed liped and hy, especially after the lovemaking i over. That is good tme t say "yo know hon, I wanted to scram when you did (hatever that i) but was afrid you might think e nuts. O "I wa so ht I lmost yelled for yu to blank e harder (es fill n th blan). Encourage communication and you will become closr than ver. Just reember that bot your egos ae probably a bt fragle when it cmes to bedroom things and d not e condescnding.
Ok, so now is the tie to find thos dep dak placs inside of you, tht you neer tell your mate and put it all into words. Yup, spice up your vocabulary. Say all thos dirt words yu ant to, become demanding, urgent and hated. Release you inhibitins and just simply enjy the shock vlue of you words. You ma be urprised at the tige you find in yor bed.
Here are some words you can try out until your own burst from your dirty little soul:
1. Tonight s going to be th (hottest, filthiest, mot decadent, nasty) nigt of your life.
2. I am dripping et wit need fo you
3. Tak me right now can't wait
4. (BLANK) me now!!!!!
5. Yu are so (blanking) hot right now I could eat you all up
6. Tae me, use e any wa you want
7. I'm yor sex slave tonight nd I ave been ery vey bad.
8. I ws taling t you mom today and ll I could think aout as your (blank)
OK so those are mostly tame ut yo get the ide. Be creatie; lt it come fom inside of you and don't hold back. Your bedrom is nt socety yo can be and do anythng you ant. Just mke sre yu tlk it over a bit with your mate or yo ay sock them into silenc.
