subject: Cheaters - How Can I Save Our Relationship? [print this page] Cheaters - How Can I Save Our Relationship?
If you've been cheated by your partner, then before you ask if you can save your relationship, ask first if you really want to be with your partner?
A cheating partner should not be taken lightly. If they cheat on you once, they are bound to do it again. Even though there are ways to save your relationship or get back together, you must be crystal clear and honest with yourself if you still want your partner back.
Now, if you've decided to save your relationship, then there's only one thing you can do to save it. Turn a blind eye. This is not easy, in fact in most cases this will cause you severe emotional trauma. Turning a blind eye on a cheating spouse or partner isn't easy. In fact knowing that you're being cheated is the worst feeling you can ever feel in your entire life.
This can cause you severe depression, but if you really want to save your relationship, this is the only thing you can do. Do you think that getting them to promise to you that they won't cheat again will work, it won't!
You'll only be fighting over each time to catch them cheating again. So if you really want to save your relationship, then the best thing you can do is to sacrifice your sense of self and happiness and just turn a blind eye.
I understand that there could be several reasons for wanting to do this. You could be thinking about the kids or something else, so even if this is not advisable specially to weak hearted, I would still recommend this.
Now, after you've gained the ability to turn a blind eye follow the instructions on the book below, particularly the part on regaining self-confidence.
