subject: Can I Get My Ex Back : 4 Must Read Tips [print this page] Can I Get My Ex Back : 4 Must Read Tips Can I Get My Ex Back : 4 Must Read Tips
If you are asking "Can I get my ex back" then you have to accept that you are probably going to have to make changes. Many couples get back together, even when their past relationship has been very rocky. The one thing is to accept responsibility for your part in the break up. If you accept that you have hurt them by your actions then you can start to move on. Regardless of what happened in the past it is time to make changes.
Getting in shape does not mean you have to have the perfect body, but showing an interest in how you look and taking action shows your ex that you are determined to make an effort to win them back. It is a win-win for you as well, getting in shape is going to give you more confidence and make you feel better.
There were issues that need to be solved between you, sometimes they seem to be pretty trivial but they still need to be fixed. If you are serious about getting your ex back these issues must be addressed.
Often an apology is needed. A mumbled voice mail message is not the way to do it. Remember if you want your ex back, the past has to be solved. That is the only way to move on together. Show some initiative and write your ex a hand written letter offering a heartfelt apology. They are going to be blown away by this, because it is both unexpected and unusual. Most people just don't make the effort.
Giving her/ him space in the beginning is very important, but you need to keep the door open for future communication. Include in your letter the suggestion that you catch up for a casual coffee or drink. Give her/ him the hint that you are still interested in getting back.
Before you catch up again, you need to be confident you are going to be relaxed and positive. Having a thought out plan can help tremendously rather than just winging it.
