subject: Best Way To Get Your Ex Back : A Wickedly Effective Tactic Often Ignored [print this page] Best Way To Get Your Ex Back : A Wickedly Effective Tactic Often Ignored
The best way to get your ex back is not always the most obvious way. You probably have tried a few tactics that have not really worked.
Immediately you split up the very first thing you want to do is contact the other person. This can be counterproductive because unfortunately whilst you are desperately wanting to contact your ex they are probably just as desperately trying to avoid you.
This sounds harsh, but if you know this then you can work out ways to deal with it.
Although you probably know deep down it is a good idea it can still be hard to do the right thing. If you think about it while you are giving them the space they want you can clear your head and really think about your needs.
Lets look at some of the positives of doing this.
You get to do all the things you need to do. Give yourself a treat, have a makeover and enjoy every moment, hang out with friends, take up some new hobbies you are really interested in but never had time for.
Meanwhile your ex is thinking about what they really want, how having all the freedom is not that exciting. They are starting to get a chance to see how much they really miss you. They start to put things in perspective, although the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence in reality it isn't.
Both of you will benefit from having time apart and space, when you are feeling calmer and in control again that will be the time to approach your ex about a casual meeting.
How long you give them space is hard to say. Because you know your ex only you will know when it is the right time to approach them.
