subject: Does He Want a Relationship? How to Tell if He's Interested [print this page] Does He Want a Relationship? How to Tell if He's Interested
Would you like to know how to tell if whether he wants a relationship with you? Do you think he is interested but you are not sure so you are afraid to make the first move? Would you like to finally set all your doubt aside and settle this matter? The great thing about men is when it comes to relationships; they generally wear their emotions on their sleeves. The problem is interpreting the signs that he is giving you. That is where this article can help you. Keep reading to finally learn if he wants you or not.
How much does he communicate with you?
If a guy does not talk to you, then quite frankly he is not interested in you. It really is that simply. Communication is the cornerstone of every relationship so you can accurately judge how he feels about you by how often he talks to you. If you're up late at night on the phone with him talking about everything, then you can be pretty positive that he is into you and would like to pursue a more intimate relationship.
Does he genuinely enjoy doing things with you?
The same rule as communication applies here. If a guy is interested in you, then he would want to spend time with you. He would want to take you out on dates. He would you want you to spend a couple of nights at his place. Guys give time to what is most important to them. If you can't convince him to go out with you because he is too busy watching a ball game then that is not a good sign. If he is willing to drop everything just to spend some quality time with you then you can be sure that he does want a relationship.
Is sex the extent of you relationship?
There is nothing wrong with sex. However, there is something wrong if it seems like that is the only thing he wants from you. If all you do is have sex but you are not growing closer emotionally, then in his mind he probably considers it as a fling which is the farthest thing from a relationship. Sex should be the tip of the ice berg, not the foundation of the relationship.
Does he want a relationship?
Evaluate him. Rate him on those three area's on a scale of one to ten, with ten being the best. Does he communicate with you? Does he love having you around? Are you growing closer emotionally? Add up the scores. The closer it is to thirty, the more positive you can be that he truly is interested in being in a relationship with you.
