subject: PERFECT RELATIONSHIP [print this page] PERFECT RELATIONSHIP PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
DO YOU envy the couples who seem to have a perfect happy marriage? No need to be envious, you can have one too. These couples are in no way perfect, probably not even happier but they know how to keep their marriage fresh and exciting. The longer we're married, the more we tend to forget that we're married to another person.
We begin to think of our spouses as extensions of ourselves - then we get frustrated when they act in ways that we wouldn't. We say things like, "Why would you do something like that?" or "How can you think that?" These reactions overlook the fact of difference that our partners are not a part of us and that they have their own individuality. Your sweetheart will inevitably have certain qualities or interests that aren't appealing to you. 'Otherness' is part of being married - no two people are completely compatible.
It doesn't take a major change to improve a marriage. The path to a more loving relationship is tread with small steps - with an unexpected compliment, the touch of a hand or a call just to say 'hello'. You can spend thousands on a big anniversary bash for your spouse but the celebration won't mean much if you haven't said 'I love you' on the other days of the year. Some little things that can make your marriage better. If you're looking for ways to improve your marriage, you can start with a compliment. So, when was the last time you gave your special someone a genuine compliment?
