subject: Tips to Attract Women- 3 Tips to Open Up The Doors and Attract Women to You [print this page] Tips to Attract Women- 3 Tips to Open Up The Doors and Attract Women to You
For most guys, the best that they can hope for when it comes to attracting a woman is that maybe, if they approach 10 women, they might get one that will seriously look at them as a guy worth dating. It's not because they don't have the stuff to attract a woman, it's because they focus on all of the wrong things. Instead of doing what works, they end up doing what they think will work and that doesn't always turn out to be the right thing.
Attraction is not a choice for women. That much is pretty clear. If it was, there wouldn't be so many women that end up falling for bad boys, guys that never seem to mature, and men that they spend more time complaining about than praising. If you want to attract women to you, then you need to be able to open up and start doing what works and not what you think will work.
Here are 3 tips to attract women to you that can make a world of difference:
1. Being overly nice to a woman is a quick way to get yourself placed in the nice guy, but would not date him category.
Why is it that women seem to respond this way? Well, when you are being overly nice, you give off a vibe that can actually end up being annoying. Think about it like this. If you had a friend who complimented you all day long and you did not have to do a thing to earn those compliments, wouldn't that begin to annoy you after a while. Well, it's kind of the same thing when you are overly nice to a woman and she hasn;t done a thing to earn it.
2. You can attract more women with your personality than with your looks.
This is going to be true for most guys. Yes, if you are blessed with the looks of a movie star, you don't have to possess any personality at all and you can still probably do pretty well with women. However, if you are just a regular guy, then your personality is going to be the main attraction for a woman.
3. Unless there is some real sense of sexual attraction with a woman, you will never be the guy she ends up dating.
Of course, there is an exception to this rule. When a woman is really tired of dating and she wants to settle down and get married more than anything, she may choose to be with a guy she is not sexually attracted to. Happens all of the time, really. Of course, those are the women that end up having affairs a few years into the marriage. You must use your ability to create sexual tension with a woman so that she feels sexually attracted to you if you want to date her.
