subject: Break up tips - What To Do During and After A Breakup [print this page] Break up tips - What To Do During and After A Breakup
If you are looking for break up tips because you think you're partner will break up with you then read this article to know what to do.
Don't be scared.
90% of break ups can be easily reversed. Don't be scared. Be as self-possessed as you can be during the break up. Don't break down. Be calm. Don't cry and beg your way back to your lover, you will only make matters worse. People have a tendency to get away from dependent partners so being and acting dependent won't help you and will hurt your chances for reconcillation.
Don't get angry.
Don't lose yourself during the break up. Don't get angry. Those who lose their head during these situations are bound to lose. Think about the situation and calmly answer any questions raised by your partner. If you get violent, and worse hurt your partner, you will have a hard chance to reconcile with them. Be as cool as you can be, remember you can easily get them back because they still love you.
Show commitment but agree to the break up.
Don't give up too easily. Show commitment to the relationship. Ask if you can still fix things up. Don't give up quite easily but don't be too hard headed. If you've given it your all and your partner still wants to break up then agree. Sometimes you have to set them free if you really love them.
Again, 90% of break ups can be easily reversed. If you've decided to get your ex back then listen carefully.
Plan it as soon as possible, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth...
