subject: Stop Spinning Your Wheels – This Proven Method to Get Your Cheating Ex Back Works [print this page] Stop Spinning Your Wheels This Proven Method to Get Your Cheating Ex Back Works
Have a cheating ex you'd like back? Think it will be impossible to work things out? Think again. Get your cheating ex back fast by putting these four principles to work for you.
1) Forgiveness is divine. When it comes to relationship, learning to forgive your ex as well as yourself will do more good for the relationship than anything else you can imagine. You also need to seek the forgiveness of your ex. Even though you weren't the one who cheated there were things that could have been handled better. There are no perfect people, no perfect partners, and no perfect relationships. We are all learning as we go and some lessons are much harder learned than others. Forgiveness is the best gift you can give your cheating ex.
2) Let sleeping dogs lie. How many times have you been arguing about one thing only to discover thirty minutes into the argument that you are actually arguing about something you thought you had both moved on from ages ago. While it would be nice if you could both leave all these sleeping dogs in the past sometimes it is so powerful that you must simply deal with it so it can die a final death and never be dug up again. If you have one argument that keeps coming back, it's time to deal with it and correct it once and for all.
3) You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone. Neither of you probably realized what you had together and how special it was until it was conspicuously absent from your lives. Sometimes what the relationship really needs is a bit of a break. Time to sort out tender emotions and bruised feelings. There is no denying that love sometimes does closely resemble war. There is the urge to protect your heart on the one hand and the knowledge of how good it is when it's good on the other. Only you can decide if it is really worth the risk.
4) Don't stop believing you can get your cheating ex back. Your ex, even though he or she cheated on you may very well be the love of your life. You might believe it's impossible to get her back. If that is the case, there is no point in trying. If you've already given up on your relationship as a lost cause there really is no point in taking another step forward. But, if you believe you can win your ex back. If you know deep down inside that anything is possible, then you have the most important tool to get the job done already.
