subject: How To Get Your Ex Girl Back – Things You Should Know Before Trying [print this page] How To Get Your Ex Girl Back Things You Should Know Before Trying
Getting a girl is more complicated than the other way around. Men are more easily enticed to get back into a relationship especially when the thought of physical contact is flaunted in front of his face. Most men have a hard time letting go of their property especially if it's a women.
However, with women it's actually different. Men should let them decide on their own how much they miss the guy. Women may forgive your shortcomings several times but when they've decided to finally let you go, it won't be easy to get them back.
However, the basics of getting people back are the same, it involves changing your attitude and becoming the guy who she fell in love with the first place. Getting back your self-confidence and self-respect.
Some guys do it the wrong way, they crawl, beg, cry, and show signs of clinging. I hate to be honest but sorry, that simply doesn't work with women, those things could even drive them further away from you and treat you pretty much like a weakling. Women hate weaklings. Though they may enjoy being in the company of one, deep inside they are looking for the adventorous and free minded types, the alpha male.
Most of the times, sending them flowers and gifts to get them back won't help either. They'll just see it as you being desperate and in some cases would even ask why you didn't do the thing when you were still together.
In my book, the one listed below. I'll walk you through the steps that my son did to get back her girlfriend. It wasn't easy. It took him a year to get her back but he was able to do it, and they've grown more mature because of the experience.
It involves regaining confidence, giving some breathing space between the two, dating other girls to get back your mojo, and finally starting again with the basics of just being close. But not fall on the "Just Friends" trap.
