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When it comes to phone sex, different people have different opinions. Some people look at it as a kinky way to have a little fun on the phone, and other people look at it as being kind of strange and dirty. If you want to explore the idea of having phone sex with a woman, you have to understand that to her, she might think that it is kind of strange and dirty. Getting a woman to try a little phone sex is not always an easy thing to do, but if that is what you want to be able to make happen, keep reading.
There are some little tricks and tips that can help you to guide her along so that she does end up at least giving it a try. There is nothing wrong with a little experimentation and if getting off on the phone seems like something that you want to try with a woman, it usually can be accomplished. Just be sure that you don't push too much for it, because that is the kind of thing that can end up turning a woman off.
Here is some advice on getting her to try phone sex with you:
1. Start the conversation off like you normally would.
If you start the conversation off trying to make it sexual and this is something that she feels weird or uncomfortable with, she's probably going to end up hanging up the phone on you. She may just end up asking why you are talking this way or something like that, but you really do not want to risk her hanging up and never calling back. So, you want to take things the way that you normally would with her, so that you are starting off at the right place.
2. Weave in some sexual innuendo and comments into the conversation to get her going.
You always want to be subtle about things when it comes to getting sexual with a woman, unless she is the type who is really out there and blunt with her sexuality. If she is on the conservative side when it comes to sex, too much talk too soon will end up killing the chances that you have of getting her to try phone sex with you. See how she reacts and use her reactions as a cue on whether to proceed further or to keep on being subtle about it.
3. Don't make her feel like she is a phone sex operator.
One of the biggest reasons why a woman will resist the idea of engaging in phone sex, is the simple fact that she does not want to feel like a phone sex operator. If this is a woman you are dating and you make her feel like she is just someone to call to get kinky with, then she is probably going to end up feeling a little cheap and used by you. This is the same reason why women don't ever want to feel like they have to trade sex for a nice dinner. They don't want to feel like they are just being used or traded.
