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How you handle the break up is an important aspect as to the strategy that you will have to take when getting your back your ex.
If you cried, threatened suicide, got violent or pretty much caused a scene, you did some damage to your chances at a reunion. However, it's not impossible to get your ex back. Nothing is impossible if you set your mind to it specially between two people who've been intimate once in their life.
However, it doesn't mean that you should not give your ex some breathing space. It's the primary reason why they decided on a break-up, it's to be free of you, though in your case only temporarily.
Don't worry; giving them space would only be temporary just to clear the air between the two of you. It is ideal to give them space but not for a very long time that they totally forget about you.
One month without contacting your ex should be enough. It will give them enough time to also miss you.
Now, after a month, you shouldn't hurry up to see them. That would look needy and desperate. You must follow a strategy that is outlined in the book below.
It will start with a technique I call the post breakup call. Initially it should be limited to this. You also don't want to call too soon as it will show a sign of desperation, loneliness, neediness and crawling. It will beat the purpose of what you're trying to do. You want them to want you back not chase after them.
If you follow the post breakup call method outlined in the book below, you should see positive developments and from there know if there's a chance for the two of you to get back together.
The post breakup call method will outline step by step what you will say, how to say it and how long you would stay on the line to "attrack" your ex. They'll be left wondering and impressed of you after the call that they would want to see you again.
After the post breakup call method, the book will teach you what to do next to encourage and entice your ex to see you.